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Love on the two beds - a pledge of strong family

January 13 2006

Most people believe that an integral part of a strong marriage - a night, held without fail in the same bed. It turns out that such opinion is erroneous. To such conclusion experts in the field of sleep. They agreed to psychologists in the field of marriage and family.

French writer Maupassant believe that marriage - is "an exchange of negative mood during the day and a bad smell at night." Statistics, in turn, revealed the following pattern - a family where the wife slept separately, a more robust and durable. In this case, couples sleeping in different beds, and even in different rooms, admitted that initially they had planned the total bed, but then for some reason had to abandon it.

The main reasons for this are as follows: partner snores, kicks in his sleep, suffered from nightmares, or violates the silence of the night other strange actions. The spouses are sleeping apart because of work schedule unsuitable room temperature or in the hope to ignite romantic passion. In this case, all those interviewed were unanimous - taking such a decision should come to him with the necessary sensitivity.

Doctors insist that a good rest at night a person can only complete silence and the absence of external stimuli. An adult needs seven to nine hours of sleep per night. This condition is necessary for health.

Physiological need for sleep is not the only reason that I can advise a little more space between the legitimate and civilian spouses. Some couples prefer to sleep separately, to overcome boredom and habit, hoping to revive the passion when they finally decide to spend the night together. Some sleep on Science during the week in different rooms, then to spend a weekend like this is a vacation.

According to Norman Epstein, professor of family therapy at the University of Maryland, it is permissible if all the pre-specified. The danger here, however, lies in the fact that such decisions lead to a distancing of partners from each other and it can reach a divorce. If the motives and the rules are clear from the outset, this trick may work.

On materials IA Rosbalt

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